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A collection of thoughts

Posted on January 25, 2012 by Mica

Crap! It’s already Wednesday, which means that this week is flying by. What this post will lack in cohesion (or is it coherence?), it makes up for in variety.

On Students: Most of the time, teaching ESL is awesome because the students really value me as an instructor. They are appreciative and see me as a veritable font of English knowledge. However, sometimes, we get students that we refer to as “malcontents.” Today, a student rolled his eyes are me, refused to make a name tag, and yelled at me about the ever-touchy issue of Taiwan’s sovereignty. For the record, I teach a class about pronunciation, and I was giving examples of how to say “My name is ____. I’m from (City, Country).”

On the Ukulele: This is seriously one of the best decisions I have ever made. It is so fun and cute and kind of like a guitar. Somehow, because it is small, I find it easier to practice and play. Strumming during commercials? I’m all about that.

On Rejection: I didn’t mention this on the blog, but for the second year in a row, I have been rejected in the first round from a (US) Government Scholarship to study Korean this coming summer. Rejection sucks, and I always get sore about the amount of time I put into my essays and assembling my application materials. Even worse, both years, the rejection letter states that due to the high volume of applicants, the committee is unable to give me any feedback about my rejection.

On Perseverence: Yesterday, I decided to apply for another scholarship, this time through the University, to study Korean abroad this summer as well as to receive funding to study it next year in grad school.

On Deadlines: Oops. The deadline for the scholarship was TODAY. Good thing I raced around like a chicken with my head cut off and got all my materials in on time. Statement of Purpose banged out in three hours? I got this! Also, there is a special spot in the afterlife waiting for my Korean teacher and two professors who agreed to furnish letters of reference on such short notice. This week, I’ll be writing some thank you notes.

On Life, Post-School: I have made the boyfriend promise me that he will not let me enroll in ANY MORE school after this. Well, I could potentially go back to school, but I have to take a break and work outside of the Ivory Tower for awhile.

**Important: To any and all readers of this blog, remind me that I want to live abroad, preferably in my 20′s before I strap myself with a mortgage and other such obligations. Even though I will try to convince myself that I really want to settle somewhere, get a 9-5 job, and decorate a condo, what I really want to do is take advantage of my freedom and live overseas.**

On Korean : I’m 99% sure that I’m going to go to Korea this summer to study, whether or not I get this second scholarship (which would subsidize my trip). While it will be costly to travel, study, and live abroad, this is pretty much the only time in my life that I will have such a large chunk of time to devote to studying. Certainly, I won’t be able to take eight weeks vacation from an office job. And as Jessica pointed out, I can write off the cost as professional development.

On Bodger: He farted.

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Here I am!

Posted on January 22, 2012 by Mica

Last night, Ryan had some people over to his apartment. I’m sad that most of the people in my program will be graduating and heading off to grand ESL adventures in the spring (Except you, Kayla. You’re stuck with meeee!). I hope I can spend the next few months really enjoying their company.

Obviously, I couldn’t show up empty-handed, so I made my first pie out of a book Mom gave me for Christmas. To be honest, I was too intimidated by crust to make a “real” pie, so I made a peanut butter pie with chocolate graham cracker crust. (That’s tastier anyway.) I think it turned out pretty well, though it looks like a disaster here:

This morning, Jessica and I went running in the damp, icy fog. Very few people were out, so I think that we deserve to pat ourselves on the back for being troopers.

8.72 miles in 1:21.02 (9:19 min./mile pace)

Jessica is also leaving in a few months, which is very sad. Fortunately, I have managed to insert myself into several of her weekly workouts so she is forced to spend time with me this semester. What, Jessica? You’re busy writing a dissertation and starting a new career and moving in with your fiancé and planning a wedding-of-awesomeness? Obviously, these are lower on the priority list than spending as much time as possible with yours truly!

Speaking of workouts, those have been happening. I’m actually taking a new approach to running and exercise in general this semester. It is one that I think will be more satisfying and enjoyable and ultimately, more productive. Perhaps I’ll blog about that soon.

In the mean time, I’m going to go to bed and grumble about how much time I had to spend in meetings and trainings at the gym today. The good news? I’m now trained and certified in First Aid and CPR!

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Ukulele ninja

Posted on January 16, 2012 by Mica

Tomorrow is the start of the spring semester, which always motivates me to–for lack of a better term–get my shit together. As usual, I will begin this semester by packing my lunches and bag the night before.

In a few weeks, I will be furiously cramming a slice of bread in my mouth as I run out the door after the bus, with wet hair and a jacket half-zipped. Ah, class.

In any event, in an effort to keep up my 2012 Resolutions, I purchased my ukulele and had my first lesson today.

Isn’t it cute? I’m very excited to learn more than two chords and one strum pattern! By the way, Bodger is freaked out by it.

I have to confess that I didn’t dress up in a skirt/dress at all last week. Thus, I will try to double up at some point because clearly, this matters a lot.

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Dan & Mica’s snow adventure!

Posted on January 12, 2012 by Mica

Tonight was the launch of the newest group fitness releases at the gym. This coincided with our first snowstorm of the year. Being the wuss that I am, I convinced Dan to pick me up and drive me to the gym.

Notice that the car is sideways here. That’s because we gracefully slid off the road into a snow bank/ditch. Seriously! We have had a total of 4″ of accumulation, but thanks to the 30mph winds, all the snow built up on the shoulder of the road.

As the sun went down, it looked like this:

While we waited for the tow-truck, Dan and I alternated getting out of the car to assess the situation. Unfortunately, Dan was ready to teach in his gym shorts and a hoodie–not exactly cold weather gear. I wore my big snowboots, which came in handy when I literally fell into a snow drift up to my knees.

Eventually, we got pulled out of the ditch (along with the five or six other cars) and made it to the gym, only about 20 minutes late. I was able to jump in and even teach my three tracks!

Dedication!

Big thanks and apologies to Dan for driving me! If I have to get stuck in a snowdrift, I’m glad it’s with you!

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2012 Resolutions

Posted on January 9, 2012 by Mica

[Edit: I started this post while I was waiting to board the plane in Richmond. Now, I am back in Illinois.]

Here are some photos from our last few days in Richmond:

In past years, I have made a vague resolution to “be a nicer person” and then immediately failed. Thus, I gave up that resolution this year.

In general, I think I’m a pretty nice person. This is not to say that I don’t have room for improvement (swearing and judging!). However, I finally realized that instead of just trying to be nicer, I should try to fix the things that contribute to my not-being-nice, such as feeling unproductive or inadequate.

Here are my three resolutions for 2012:

Dress up in a skirt or dress (or other lady-like ensemble) at least once a week. My normal grad school attire is jeans, a t-shirt, a jacket/sweater, and sneakers. Obviously, this isn’t going to fly in the “real” workplace. I don’t intend to become a fashionista (anti-minimalist), but I want to work on looking and acting slightly more polished in anticipation of getting a job in the near-ish future. I think I deserve respect, so if I look like I respect and take care of myself, I think we’re getting somewhere. This resolution does not include make-up, but if I figure it out along the way, all the better! [I already wore a dress and cardigan to dinner with Ashley last Wednesday. One week down!]

Learn to play the ukulele. I don’t want to be one of those adults who bemoans losing any and all musical training, and I want to pick up a fulfilling hobby. I was debating learning to knit or quilt, but neither of those jive as nicely with my minimalist lifestyle as an instrument does. Plus, a ukulele will allow me to accompany myself when I sing off-tune in the apartment, but it won’t bother the neighbors like a tuba would.

Spend less time on the Internet. This is the most ambiguous of my resolutions because I’m not quite sure how to implement a plan of attack. In general, I want to reduce to amount of time that I feel is wasted on the Interwebs (Facebook! Blogs!). That is, I will still be connected, but I want to reduce the amount of time I could use more productively (on Resolution #2, for example)!

And there you have it. My three resolutions for 2012. I have other goals, such as cleaning the apartment bi-weekly and opening an index fund, but I really want to focus on these specific three this year. When I ring in 2013 (provided we haven’t all perished in the apocalypse), I hope to be better-dressed, proficient at the ukulele, and a savvy consumer of Internet media–and through these things, a happier person.

(Not a real dog, Bodger.)

And here are the boyfriend’s resolutions for the year:

Avoid spending time watching movies he has seen/dislikes on Saturday afternoon TV.
Do a programming project
Read articles on The Economist instead of sports articles on ESPN

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Beantown Holiday

Posted on January 5, 2012 by Mica

We’re already five days into January, which means that it is high time for the first micapie post of 2012!

The boyfriend and I had a lovely New Year’s trip to Boston, our first visit in four years.

There is a city-wide event called First Night in Boston on New Year’s Eve. There are different cultural events all over the city, starting with a big parade:

There were also elaborate ice sculptures (which were sadly melted by the next day):

At midnight, there was a fireworks show in Boston Harbor. After dinner, we made our way (we thought) to the docks to see them, but due to a hiccup in the boyfriend’s knowledge of Boston geography, we ended up in south Boston, far away. About three minutes to midnight, we finally got on track. Thus, we rang in 2012 with this view of the midnight fireworks:

It is an amusing story and certainly something I will remember for years to come. Also, we determined that I have a better sense of direction that the boyfriend.

After New Year’s Eve, we did several other fun things in Bean-town.

We checked off Massachusetts on our list of state capitol photos. I think we’re up to seven or so now.

We walked around Quincy Market and marveled at the big-ass tree:

We lunched at the Union Oyster House, America’s Oldest restaurant:

One dinner was at Rabia’s, our favorite Italian restaurant in the North End. Please note the couple feeding each other in the corner:

Also, in the North End, I had a raspberry-lime rickey (soda) and tasted my first lobster tail (a flaky pastry filled with delicious French cream).

We didn’t eat it all, so I had to carry that heavy thing back to the hotel:

At Har-fard, we visited the boyfriend’s freshman dorm:

And his upperclassman dorm:

(The boyfriend’s sophomore dorm room was the room in which Facebook was created several years before!)

We also saw the Occupy Harvard ~~structure~~ yurt…where he did not live:

We also met up with Gebre, one of the boyfriend’s suitemates, for lunch at Yenching (one of their favorite Chinese restaurants in Harvard Square):

And the next day, we had dinner and bubble tea with Shuyu and Lyric. Shuyu lived in the boyfriend’s upperclassman residence, and Lyric is one of our high school friends:

Overall, it was a really great trip and a fantastic Christmas present to each other. I dragged the boyfriend to every realty office window I could find to price condos in the city, so maybe we will end up living there after graduation. (But seriously, it feels like that will never get here.)

And because this post is already too long, I will end it here. Resolution list to come!

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Peace out, 2011!

Posted on December 30, 2011 by Mica

It’s only 9:17 as I’m writing this, but I have to go to sleep soon because…

Tomorrow, the boyfriend’s parents are driving us to the airport at 4am, and our flight departs at 6am. (It’s an hour-long drive to the airport.) On one hand, this gives us all day in Boston. On the other hand, we are supposed to stay up up until at least midnight so we can ring in 2012, Boston-style. I think an afternoon/early evening nap will be in order.

This year, I’m going to shake things up and make at least one New Year’s Resolution. Are you going to make one? Please share! I’ll share mine and the boyfriend’s in the next post.

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Post-holiday Post

Posted on December 28, 2011 by Mica

Christmas 2011 was quite a success! In fact, the festivities lasted much longer than one day, so there was very little let-down on the 26th. Not only did I receive really useful and thoughtful gifts, I got to spend quality time with family. And with Mom/Steve, Dad/Pat, and the boyfriend’s families, that’s a lot of people! I am quite lucky indeed.

Brett explains a local brewery, while Neville passes out in the background:

Mom and Steve received some good-smelling pepperoni:

Hipster flannel!

…and warm woolen mittens!

And I cradled a jug of real Vermont maple syrup like a baby. (I tried out the red-eye reduction feature on my camera, but it looks a little funny to me.)

Bodger has certainly made himself at home while staying with Mom. He and Neville get along pretty well:

Richmond is full of friends! I serendipitously ran into Monica, a long-time family friend, at dinner last night with Dad and Pat.

The last two mornings, I’ve been running with Lora, one of my friends from middle school and an occasional reader of this blog. Our parents live pretty close, so we got to catch up while covering some miles together. Best of luck with Semester II of Med School, Lora! You’ll go far, I know it!

The boyfriend and I are spending the next two days in Urbanna, VA with his parents before we head out to Boston for New Year’s Eve!

Sharing is caring: What are your NYE plans?

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Merrily on High

Posted on December 24, 2011 by Mica

Merry Christmas Eve! I’m going to try to bang this post out and get to sleep before the clock strikes midnight and it’s actually Christmas day!

I did my long run today. Nine miles in the books, which gave me plenty of time to check out the beautiful Richmond scenery:

9:47
9:38
9:32
9:22
9:33
9:37
9:43
9:24
9:18

Christmas Eve was celebrated at Dad and Pat’s house, which is always a joyous and irreverent affair.

Josh brought his girlfriend Erin, who was a lovely addition to the festivities.

This year, Sam was able to join us! We look pretty much the same as we did in high school…

This year, Uncle Rick had the biggest box to open. (It was yard art.)

Dad and Uncle Dick gave each other the same present…or something. I wasn’t quite sure.

Here, Aunt Kris is holding a book about Hollywood Cemetery in Richmond that has a picture of my grandfather’s grave in it. Steve, on the other hand, is holding Monkey butt powder.

And what would the holidays be without a serious photo?

Merry Christmas! I hope you have a wonderful holiday with your family and friends!

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Should old acquaintance be forgot.

Posted on December 23, 2011 by Mica

It was a busy Christmas Eve Eve today, full of reunions and happenings. To kick it off, I ran five and a half miles, though my Garmin kept trying to tell me that I was running both farther and faster than I really was. (Does this happen to anyone else?)

9:39
9:43
9:39
9:28
9:40
(O.46 – 4:11)

In the morning, I had a reunion with girls from my middle school, most of whom I hadn’t seen in ten years.

I can’t believe how “old” we are now! Perhaps it would be better to say I can’t believe how adult they are now. In comparison to their exciting lives and impressive achievements, I felt very…young. In any event, it was nice to catch up!

Later, we met up with friends of the family: Brenda, Paula, and Jennifer. This is a tradition we’ve been doing for as long as I can remember, though the venue changes. Today, Paula hosted us at her fancy downtown apartment. Very nice!

And tonight, the boyfriend’s parents took us to the “Garden Fest of Lights” at the Lewis Ginter Botanical Gardens. We got there a bit early, so it wasn’t quite dark when we started walking: